The Sadhguru was quoting some internet expert on his talk. The expert told him that 70% of the internet is full of porn films. The number is growing like nothing. The most dangerous part is the growing number of addicted persons. This is an addiction that is greater and more harmful than any other addiction. Let’ ask ourselves Are You Addicted to Porn?
How to figure out?
For all kinds of addictions, the worst thing is that one who is addicted can never come to know that he/she is an addict. Here are five simple questions to figure out whether you are addicted or not. Answer the following questions honestly to get proper results yourself. No need to share the results with anybody. Of course, you can share it with us with or without a name. Your privacy will be maintained carefully.
- Do you watch Porn Movies?
If your answer to this question is positive, there is nothing wrong with it. If the answer is negative, then you are out of the circle.
- How many times do you think of sex in a day?
If your answer is 5 times or more, you are prone to addiction. As the number increases, the level of addiction gets worsened.
- What comes to your mind when you wake up in the morning?
You wake up in the morning, and if the first thing strikes your mind is sex then it’s a bit serious. If you search for a porn movie on your cell phone and start watching it, then you are surely on the boundary in addiction.
- Which body part of a woman, you get stuck up to?
Whenever do you see any woman walking on a street or in a marketplace or in office, which part of her body you see the most? If the answer is breasts and hips, or bras and undergarments then you are at a serious stage of addiction.
- How many porn movies you watch in a week?
This is the ultimate question that decides, whether you are addicted to a serious level or not. If you are watching more than 5 porn movies a week, it approves that you are addicted. If the number is 50+ then your addiction is moderate, if it is 100+ you are severely addicted and a higher number indicates that you need psychological guidance immediately.
The web of porn
The web is the biggest trap of porn movies. Even if you are browsing on some good sites, some pop up ads of dating, breast toning, and penis enlargement disturb you. Such disturbance is the first step for this addiction. Technology has provided with the cell phones in many hands. It is also available to such hands without any discrimination.
In recent years the porn industry is getting huge acceptance from society. In many countries, stars from these films are cast in mainstream movies and they are getting appreciation from viewers. Many leading Television shows call these stars for participation. They should be treated as humans as they are, but with this, porn is spread without hesitation in society.
Human versus wild men
These films depict the most unreal, filthy, and wildest acts. Porn stars do these acts on camera because they are paid for it. I am damming sure that; these stars can never do these acts in their real-life if they are not paid for it. One should never forget that this industry is the number 2 industry on the globe, which drives plenty of money.
Money is an important factor that attracts more people to this industry. One can see young girls from all over the globe are desperately willing to enter into this industry. Of course, some nations oppose it and so people from such countries are in very small numbers in this industry. Interestingly, the same countries are huge markets for this kind of movie.
Child pornography
Child pornography is the worst form of and at no cost, it is advocated for. This is the most heinous crime and almost all the countries of the globe have banned it. This kind of strong initiative has curtailed it. Still, some old child porn films are smuggled and found on the web. Although not a good sign, people having a flavor for this exists amongst us.
Porn is not bad
As far as porn or that kind of film is concerned they do not come to your home and beg you to watch them. It is we who bring them to our home and watch them repeatedly. Sex is the basic instinct but if you take it in the wrong way you are surely going to lose finally. Your lap or cell phone does not work on its own. You have the choice to command it at your hands. Watching it once a while did not make any wrong.
Many countries, especially foreign nations, identify this as an industry. They provide proper registration under their law for such cinema houses and license them for producing such films. All the deeds of such a cinema house, its directors, casts, and crew are covered under the law in such countries. There are laws regulating the viewers, which can easily be manipulated.
Porn stars – reel n real life
What attracts porn movie seekers are porn stars. These porn stars are having a very presentable body. The males have a very good physique decorated with a six-pack or eight pack abs. Besides these handsome guys, there are very beautiful women. They have very well curves to her bodies and willing to offer every inch of their bodies to their partners.
Both of them have their sexual organs lucrative. Males have giant tools and women have huge breasts and ass cheeks. They engage in every filthy or dirty act pretending as if they are enjoying those acts. The reality is they are working under the effect of steroids. That is the reason the males hold too long before ejaculate. Eventually, porn movies show a false picture of sex life.
Emotional disorders
Porn addiction has the potential for creating many serious emotional mental problems. There is a scientific ground behind it. If you watch porn movies daily and in huge numbers, it ruins the synchronization of your body. When you watch a porn movie, your brain sends signals for arousal. Your body parts follow orders given by the brain.
On the orders by brain adrenaline and other fluids start oozing out in your body and they last till your ejaculation. If you watch 20 porn films a day, this entire process will continue every time, that is 20 times in your body. This can cause a serious imbalance between your brain, emotions, and other bodily fluid creating chaos. This can result in emotional disorders.
It can ruin your sex life
You have born with this human body on this planet for the enjoyment of life. This life is full of joy. You can experience all this joy with your five senses. Touch is one of the important ingredients of these five senses. Sex is associated with this. But for good sex life, you need to create a balance between your brain, emotions, and mind.
When you are a porn addict, you spend much time watching porn movies and probably spend a lot of energy masturbating while watching porn movies. Hence the possibility that you get exhausted while performing on bed. Another point is while in bed, you have the porn star in your mind and your partner in front of you. In this case, it can ruin your sex life for sure.
How to de-addict yourself
After reading this post, if you feel that, you are a porn addict and you want to get rid of it, here are some proven techniques to overcome it.
- Meditate in the morning
When you wake up in the morning, answer nature’s call, and sit in a quiet corner of your room. Let the thoughts travel their way (of course, even ones those are related with porn.)
- Read before going to bed
Before going to bed read something inspirational. You can choose any book of any genre and variety. Make sure that you read at least 2 pages before going to sleep. Make it a thumb rule.
- Do not resist
Throughout the day, at any time if the thoughts of porn come to your mind, do not resist. I will recommend watching a couple of porn films if you feel the urge. This will gradually get you out of this trap.
- Engage your mind
Engage your mind to anything you like. It may be singing, dancing, swimming, cycling, writing, reading, or any indoor/outdoor games. Once you engage your mind it will apply its energy for the betterment of the same.
- Put your energy into passion
Everybody has a passion for something. Try to figure out your passion and give the maximum of your energy to get your aims to accomplish. Just think that if you can put so much energy in porn, why not the same for your passion?
I hope, you have got good information from this post and it has given you an insight into porn addiction. If you are addicted and want to get rid of it, try these techniques at home and do not hesitate to share the results here.
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